would he go through that embarassment just for sex, or would he be around bc he really cares?

if you have to ask this,...why not ask him. If you don't know the answer to this question then you should not even consider having sex with this guy. He probably really cares, but who knows.. the things men do for sex never cease to amaze me. It depends on who he is as a person . He may just be comfortable with you in knowing that you dont have a problem with his medical problem. On the other hand anything is possible hun. Talk to him. If you're worried, tyhen there is obviously a reason to worry. Just ask him what your relationship is about and if it means as much to him as it does to you. He may not be honest, but you will most likely be able to tell how he really feels. if you don't want to do it, then don't. Stay true to what you want, and don't give in if you aren't ready. yes i do know men who have only went out with women just for sex with all sorts of different conditions but it all depends on them. try to ask him without being too blunt why he wants to be with you or why he wanted to be with you . you know what i mean what is ED?but i guess many a guy would go with a girl for sex its cheaper than using a prostitute hun if a guy is in the state of mind where all he wants is sex - it doesnt matter what dysfunctionalities he might have... his mind isnt even thinking about that

guys arent like us girls - they dont care as much about their imperfections as we do. if they think they're going to get some regardless of their flaw then they're happy not embarassed