This question is only for young single guys from India.

the situation is the west is very, very different, so the western's answers will not mean much here.

If you are in a situation (e.g. a fracture) where your very personal and private daily routines like urinating, defecating, changing clothes and underwear, etc. has to be done by another person...... who would make you the most embarrasing choice and who would be the least embarrassing:

1. Your family member like a brother or father

2. Your friend

3. Your male cousin

Also tell me how embarrassed will you feel in the hospital if these acts are conducted by a female nurse.

I'm from kerala, and I can give my views.

First of all, My best friend just broke his right wrist in 3 places. His mom helps him thru the day, Bathing etc.... His Mom said he doesn't like it (I call her often). He called me a few days later and told me, "Man! I took a bath", by himself. As far as one hand fractures are concerned, you can help yourself. Or if you are friendly with your dad, he would be a choice, second to mom.

He is 18, he just went back to college, he helps himself.

My brother had operations a year ago and nurses changed his cloths, he told me it was a bit embarrassing but hey, you are in serious pain here and you should actually be thankful. & Oh ya, the second day, he had male nurses to help him out. But My mom was also with him. (I wasnt there because I had exams. I woulda helped him, to an extent tho. But me & Him are not that brotherly)