she caught him cheating months ago and dumped him, later found out that he had herpes, now she has blisters around her anus, is that herpes or what? they were married 5 years. she said they never had anul sex so how can that be, isn't herpes only in the vaginal area?

never had an std so i can't answer her question. I'll probably get a violation if i tell you what i would do to her hubby if he were mine!...lol

the anus is part o fher genatalia or whatever. it can attack her anywhere. it may be hpv-genetal warts. it amy be irritated. she needs to see a doc. some disease can only be tested by an open sore or whatever and she can do that now. she shouldnt be embarassed or hold anything back while talking to her doc. i would hurt him, yeah. thats more than just a heart ache he caused her. hes burning too hmm its possible Herpes can be carried in most places (Think of cold sores)....from a cold sore to......who knows where